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FAMILY LAW IN CONNECTICUT
 
ALIMONY & PROPERTY DIVISION
 
Connecticut family law specifies 17 different criteria or yardsticks in deciding how to divide your property. The same criteria are used in deciding whether alimony will be paid.
 
In a litigated divorce, the judge will make those decisions for you if you can't agree between yourselves.
 
But when you collaborate or mediate your divorce, you and your spouse will make these crucial decisions. With the help of your collaborative attorneys or your mediator, both of you will identify your most important interests and needs. You will brainstorm various options based on those interests and needs as you  develop  proposals to resolve all the issues.
 
You will both do this in an atmosphere of trust where you will be listened to respectfully.   
 
Finally, you will reach a fair and thorough settlement, one that will allow you both to resume your lives with dignity. 
 
Use the following table as a general guide to both property division and alimony. But remember, always, that your and your spouse's needs and interests will decide how much weight to give these criteria.  
 
CRITERIA for EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION
 CRITERIA  PROPERTY  ALIMONY
 LENGTH OF MARRIAGE

Yes

Yes

 CAUSES FOR BREAKDOWN

 Yes

 Yes

 AGES OF THE PARTIES

 Yes

  Yes

 HEALTH

Yes

 Yes

 STATION

 Yes

Yes

OCCUPATION  

Yes 

Yes 

INCOME: AMOUNT 

Yes 

Yes 

INCOME: SOURCES 

Yes 

Yes 

VOCATIONAL SKILLS 

Yes 

Yes 

EMPLOYABILITY

Yes 

Yes 

ESTATE

Yes 

Yes 

 LIABILITIES

Yes 

No 

NEEDS OF EACH PARTY 

Yes 

Yes 

PROPERTY AWARD

 N/A

Yes 

OPPORTUNITY FOR FUTURE ACQUISITION OF CAPITAL ASSETS AND INCOME

Yes 

No 

CONTRIBUTION OF EACH PARTY IN THE ACQUISITION, PRESERVATION OR APPRECIATION IN VALUE OF THEIR RESPECTIVE ESTATES (tracing of assets) 

 Yes

No 

 DESIRABILITY OF CUSTODIAL PARENT SECURING EMPLOYMENT No Yes

 No

Yes